"...this is my scribble, i write this in the wednesday morning..after i read a book with title 'in the sphere of silence" by Vijay Eswaran.... i think this Philippine book...coz in the page for praise all the commentator come from Manila and Philippine.
a majesty book , i borrow from my friends loan,,,^^hehehehehe free i like it at any time until @_@
now enjoy ur seat...smile.... begin with Bismillahirohmanirohim.... and get a new knowledge, new mindset, new understanding that make a new behavior and new spirit.....
come in..........safety first heeeeeeeeeeeeee just-kidd...
read it all then give ur comment ok.........
If the greatest war is the war over oneself, the greatest enemy is anger...
do u know, when i read the book i find this proverb :
Anger is a drop of ink in a gllas of milk. Once you become angry,there is no turning back. Once the ink gets into the milk, the milk is lost forever...
( i think so....do you ???? but i realize that i often drop of ink in a milk, very often....i can't control my passion,,how poor iam!!!! how about u ??? like me or better ??)
Anger doesn't go away when you give in to it. It feeds and results in even more anger. Hence, the cycle never ends.
Anger has its uses. Scripturally, GOD gets angry too but only as a manifestasion of his love. Anger as a manifestation of love is detached. Anger to one who is attached, is like a sword or a gun and if that someone lost control, it is a weapon that can kill or destroy.
<........ break a minute....thinking (".") can u imagine ????? with anger we can destroy anythings, lives, relationships, families, and communities. it can unravel the fabric of society and destroy nations in its path. how dangerous is it !!!! >
Anger Ulimately, it diminishes us all. Anger harms us much as it harms others.
we must ask ourselves again and again : does our anger really matter ?????????? for what we do in anger, seldom does.
^the Ego^
""""""please read paragraph below carefully. i need an our to assured me that its very important to understand. and now i try to assured u....this paragraph below is very important @_@""""""
Anger is Ego driven. our ego is so much a part of us because we have put so much energy in building it up just the way we build a house or polish a car.
we generally seek refuge in arrogance, fueled by ego, thinking it to be e strength. in reality, it is a weakness that covers an innate sense of inferiority. this, in turn, leads us to self-destruct.
Ego stand for edging GOD out.
we read on the wave of our anger and stay on the crest of that wave instead of asking why. we never ask why because we're afraid of the answers. knowing 'why" very often puts an almost immediate stop to the anger.
Amger thrives on attachment. Disasters teach us that we don't own anything in this world. we're merely passing through.
<<<< yes.... everything we have is borrowed, including our very lives, which must, in the circle of life, return to it source ALLAH SWT the Greatest. we know everything is transient ; ours only to have and to hold momentarily. we live in this world just a few time.... there is an eternal time for us.....in the hereafter when we meet ALLAH to be resonsible for our pisaller. Ultimately, we're in the midst of an epic-like war, with the ego as our nemesis. Everyday brings a new battle. and the battlefield is within. Recognizing this, the best of us figth it, so that the best in us cann thrive.
The worst of us allow the worst in us to be driven by it.......>>>> agreed ???????????? u have to agree @_@
in detachment, anger, at best, is a tool and many a great man has used it in order to create an impact. we can become detached and this allows us, in turn, to redirect our anger without to become what it should be, a passion. a passion that drives us to achieve.
however, it is the malicious anger within that is at the heart tof vengeance, hatred and jelaousy. it invariably; destroys.
< do u think what i think ???? of course we must ptactice it and always remember the last word never forget it !!!!!..>
we can conclude that :
If detached, anger is a tool. if attached, you become its tool.
instead of getting angry, retreat into silence and analyse 'why'. in moving from ignorance to knowledge, the ego and its anger get crushed.
too simple sentence..... but very difficult to practice....
i remember when i got angry, everyone and everything look like my enemy.... they are egoist, didn't understand me, i'ill blame they must be responsible for all my problems...and so on ^^hehehehehe iam so childish....hey, but after i read this all i'ill try not to do such childish things again... be better i will :D sure i can.... why u don't ???
we can.....
~Humility~
a truly humble man cannot get angry @_~
so.............???????????? (gets the answer by your self ^^hehehe)
reflect modesty like the tree that bends low with the burden of ripening fruits. it is the barren tree that lifts it self high in an empty boast.
one has to be spiritually and mentally balanced in an egoless state. this allows us to see order in chaos and chaos in order. in fact, it is the balance in all things. Hence, chaos without is a matter of perception, while chaos within is the conception of the Ego.
based in all this paragraph doesn't control anger but it detaches u from it, giving u a braething space to deal with it. by going deep into the silence inside you, no matter how arrogant or egoistical u are, u'ill have a hard time getting angry. u can actually find ur self stepping back and laughing, saying : "i'am angry. WHY ????
Then, analysethe REASON as to WHY..........
do u know i read and write it all ashamedly.... why...????? because at that time iam in a stew....coz a little misinterprete, misjudg, misstating and finally i go about it the wrong wig.... with anger..... after read this all once again i realize that iam very stupid with my anger, ANGER is never effective way to resolve conflict.
i make my friends, get confused, little hate (i hope not) with me..... :<>
*by my sister; mela agustina ;*
